If you’re eloping in San Diego, it doesn’t have to be a quick “I do” on the beach and done. You deserve more than a 30-minute ceremony. Your elopement can be a full-day experience—packed with intentional moments, cool places, and stuff that actually feels like you.
Let’s walk through how to turn your San Diego elopement into a full, stress-free day from sunrise to sunset.
Most people think eloping = short and simple. And while it can be laid back and intimate, it doesn’t have to be short. You’re still getting married. You still deserve a day that feels unforgettable—not rushed.
With San Diego’s mix of beaches, cliffs, mountains, and low-key city spots, you’ve got endless ways to fill your day without ever feeling overwhelmed.
Instead of rushing into hair + makeup, start your morning slow. Make coffee, journal, write your vows, play music you love. Stay in your Airbnb a little longer. Or take a morning walk at the beach. Give yourself space to feel grounded before the day unfolds.
This is the part of your elopement day that’s just for you. Grab coffee from local spots like Communal Coffee or James Coffee Co. Or pack a picnic with snacks, fruit, and cold brew. You could hang at Balboa Park, Sunset Cliffs, or even the steps of your rental.
This is where you make it personal. Choose something fun and low-key that reflects your relationship:
Whether you want chill or adventurous, San Diego has plenty of options that don’t feel like “wedding” things—but still make your day feel special.
Most couples pick 1 location for their elopement and call it good—but why not more?
San Diego makes it easy to do a beach and mountain vibe in one day. You could start your day at a forest-y trail and end with a barefoot sunset moment at the cliffs. The golden hour light in fall or spring is unreal—so take advantage of it.
Pro tip: build in extra time so portraits don’t feel rushed. The in-between moments are where the magic lives.
Don’t skip this. Just because you’re not doing a reception doesn’t mean your night has to end after the ceremony. End your elopement day with something that feels grounding or celebratory:
This is where it all sinks in.
Here’s a basic idea of what a full elopement day could look like:
9:00 AM – Slow morning, coffee, vow writing
11:00 AM – Picnic brunch or café run
1:00 PM – Chill time, hike, or couples activity
3:00 PM – Get ready + first look
4:30 PM – Ceremony at chosen location
5:30 PM – Golden hour portraits
7:00 PM – Sunset dinner or beach hang
8:30 PM – Stargazing, fireside moment, or hot tub
You don’t need a 10-hour wedding with 200 people to have a meaningful experience. But you also don’t need to shrink your day down to something that feels like an errand.
Build in the things you love: food, fresh air, slow moments, real connection. That’s what your elopement day deserves.
Want help building your own full-day San Diego elopement timeline? I’d love to help you plan it out—from permits and location ideas to golden hour timing and local food spots.